2021.09.16 23:05 Throw-the-throwaway- How do I find closure?
Hi guys this is a throwaway account.
So I (young adult) am struggling for a while now. Basically, I’ve had social anxiety and trust issues my entire life.
I’ve been dating my Partner(P) for a couple of years now. Their mother (PM) plays an important role in this story. Now because of my issues it took me around 2 years to open up to her, though she is an awesome woman. Even if I had bad experiences with psychologist and other people, I felt as if I could trust her and started to open up.
After the lockdown 2020 hit my social anxiety increased. PM was worried for both P and me because I kind of struggled with my mental health and it was putting them under pressure as well. Though she encouraged me to seek help, I refused because of past experiences which I won’t go into detail. They were bad. (If anyone has any alternatives it would be appreciated)
My mom (MM) knows about my struggles but I never told PM specifically which might have lead to my conflict.
Because PM was worried she knew nothing better to do than to inform MM via email, which would not have been a problem if I was asked or at least informed beforehand. (Happened about 2-3 months ago) It isn’t technically bad what PM did, though she wrote the email as if she thought that MM knew nothing about my mental health. I might overreact because of past trauma but honestly it hurts that I was not asked about it. I am not a 5 year old child anymore and I would have said “ok” if it made PM feel better. But the fact that she just shared this information without informing me first makes me ask if she just spreads my worries around the whole world or something.
I came here to ask for advice about how to handle this situation or specifically how I can find closure. I really don’t know what to do. There is always an awkward tension between us though this could be my fault because I am worried about saying the wrong thing.
Just to add: My partner is at no fault. They knew nothing about the email until I addressed it. Though they don’t see it as large of a problem as I do they still see why this situation worries me. They did not know how to address this issue to their mother because I am afraid they are going to say something that would cause more misunderstandings.
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2021.09.16 23:05 jaytee812 Dog doesn't sleep through the night
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Hallo liebe Ei23 Gemeinde,
ich bin neu hier und bin direkt auf ein Problem an meinem Pi gestoßen. Der mag es überhaupt nicht wenn meine SSD an einem USB 3.0 Port hängt. Von USB 2.0 starten ist dagegen gar kein Problem. Die Komponenten die ich habe sind direkt die Links von der Ei23 Website. Also Raspberry 4 mit 4GB RAM, original Netzteil, die 1TB Kingston SSD und der Adapter auf USB 3 dazu. Kennt da jemand einen Lösungsvorschlag? Ich habe auf einem Forum mal etwas von einem Micronchip Problem gelesen (damit konnte ich nicht viel anfangen) und dass man den Pi nur updaten muss, hat aber leider nicht geholfen.
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